Welcome to Elegant Ruin

photo: Kenzi Crash

I am thrilled to introduce this space as the updated version of Maitresse Nomi's playground. Here, I will share some of my experiences in the industry as both a lifestyle and professional Domina. I have been in the industry for 8 years and have been part of the BDSM lifestyle for twice that duration starting my journey In Los Angeles and refining my craft across different cities both locally and internationally.

I cannot wait to share my inner most thoughts and what I do and how I am able to best express my love for my craft.

In a world where everything is displayed, measured, and compared, I’ve chosen to keep certain things hidden.

The same is true for my rates. True luxury is never posted on a menu board. It’s bespoke. It’s tailored. It depends on what we create together. My sessions are not something you simply “book.” They’re invitations—ones I extend selectively.

By keeping these things discreet, I keep the focus where it belongs: on the experience itself. If you wish to know more, inquire. If we align, you’ll discover that the mystery is half the allure.

How to navigate this site: Take your time to explore the sections, learn about my sessions, and if you feel drawn, complete the form. If I accept your request, we will discuss details privately—because discretion is the foundation of true luxury.